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50 Best Winter Date Ideas to Heat Up the Romance on Cold Nights

These dates are cheap, fun, and, above all else, romantic.

By Kelsey Hurwitz and Olivia Muenter
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Planning dates in the summer can be as simple as stepping out your front door and enjoying the warm weather with a loved one. But figuring out date night ideas for winter? That can be a little more difficult. After all, it’s hard to get in the mood for a romantic date night when it's dark at 4:30 p.m. and the temperature is below freezing. Even if the weather is fairly mild where you live, it can sometimes be hard to find the energy for a date night — especially when you'd rather be cozied up in the comfort of your own home. But whether you're planning a unique date or you're looking for a romantic movie to watch on the couch, there are so many ways to make things fun, romantic, and special. After all, figuring out how to spend some special time with your special someone shouldn't be overwhelming. It should be fun.

In reality, though, there are just a few simple factors that go into planning a memorable, entertaining, and romantic date night: Intention, creativity, and imagination. You’d be surprised how much more fun a regular homemade dinner or a movie night can be with just a little more planning and purpose behind it. Why not create a blanket fort in your living room? Or buy a projector and play movies in the backyard? Maybe you could cook a dinner that’s entirely based on a cuisine you and your partner have never tried, but have always been curious about. The bottom line is a tiny bit of planning can change a regular, everyday evening into something that feels more magical. This is especially true of winter dates, which are always just a little bit cozier than those any other time of year. Whether your dream date involves a romantic night in, a gourmet meal, or a fun activity, here are 50 ideas that will help you get closer to your significant other.

1

Start a book club.

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If you and your partner are big readers (or even if you’re not), starting a book club with just the two of you is an awesome way to create a built-in date night after a few weeks or so. You can pair the book discussions with a nice meal and it’ll feel more intentional, romantic, and special than a regular date night.

2

Have a cooking competition.

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Have you ever wanted to see who’s really the better cook in your partnership? Create a date night around cooking. Divide up the appetizer, main dish, sides, and dessert between the two of you, and then rate the dishes accordingly. You could even include a prize to make things even more fun.

3

Go to the bookstore.

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There's just something romantic about getting lost in shelves upon shelves of books. Challenge your partner to choose a book they think you'll love and vice versa, or show each other your favorite books of all time. Grab some drinks or brunch after to complete the day.

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4

Wrap some presents together.

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Making a date night out of wrapping presents is a great way to make an otherwise annoying task a little more bearable. Turn on a favorite holiday movie, get out all the supplies, and pour some mugs of hot chocolate or glasses of wine for good measure. Matching holiday pajamas encouraged.

5

Have a board game marathon.

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Bring out your favorite board games, turn on some fun music, put out a snack platter and some drinks and have a cozy day indoors playing your favorite games.

6

Have a hot chocolate competition.

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See which of you can craft the best-tasting (or most creative) hot chocolate by setting out a tray full of hot cocoa supplies and seeing who makes the best concoction. Maybe the winner gets to choose where you go or what you'll do on the next date night.

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7

Find a real fireplace.

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Whether you build a fire at home or you locate some restaurants and bars with real, working fireplaces in your area, it'll always be a choice that makes date night more romantic.

8

Have a black-and-white movie day.

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There’s something romantic about black-and-white, vintage movies. They’re probably not your first pick on most nights when you turn on the television, so create a date night around watching some together.

9

Go on a road trip.

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Road trips can be romantic if you plan them right. It’s the best way to see a new town or environment, plus, you can stay in the safety of your vehicle. Find a town an hour or so away and sight-see from the comfort of the front seat. Romantic playlists encouraged, obviously.

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10

Go camping.

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Cold weather camping is possible – it just takes some planning. Pack up your warmest sleeping bags and parkas and drink hot chocolate and roast marshmallows fireside for a date night you’ll both never forget.

11

Go to the beach.

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There's just something about the beach during winter that makes it that much more romantic. There are less people around, for one, so it's a little more private. It's also chilly enough to bundle up and do a little cuddling with your loved one. Whether you bring a picnic, make a bonfire, or both, this could be a great winter date if you happen to live near a beach area.

12

Create an at-home movie theater.

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If there’s a new movie you’re dying to stream at home, build a special date night by making a movie theater in your own house. Pop movie theater-style popcorn, buy some snack packs of candy, pour some sodas (or something stronger) into cups with lots of ice, and dim all the lights. You’ll be surprised how much better it feels than any regular night.

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13

Exercise together.

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With a little planning, exercising together can be a date, too! Bundle up and go on a scenic jog or bike ride to get your hearts pumping and have fun together.

14

Get dressed up, just because.

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If you’re missing dressing up for date night, pick a night to do it and stick to the plan no matter what. Whether you wear your fanciest outfits out to a new restaurant or club, or you just sport them at home, it'll be worth it.

15

Create a vision board.

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Odds are you and your partner have spent a lot of time planning your futures and goals together. Why not have a date night where you build vision boards for those goals? Use a stack of magazines and cut out images that will help you manifest your dream life.

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16

Take a walk down memory lane.

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You know that box in the closet with every single memory of your relationship? The one with those old photos, movie stubs, and other mementos you haven’t looked at in years? Have a date night where you go through all of that — maybe even turn it into a scrapbook while you’re at it.

17

Go to the zoo.

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Grab your warmest coat and head to the zoo for a fun, romantic, and active date. Just make sure you don't choose a day where rain or snow is on the forecast.

18

Go to the dog park or beach.

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If you and your partner share a furry friend, research dog parks in your area (or dog beaches) and bring along your pup to have some fun with them. All three of you will have a blast.

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19

Create a winter wonderland.

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It doesn't have to be the holidays for you to decorate. Stream string lights from every surface, cover bannisters and shelves in garland, and even get some fake snow. Dance around to music and bake cookies if you want to make the date even more fun.

20

Stop by a winery.

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Another outdoor date option is to stop by a winery and do an outdoor tour or tasting. Throw on a scarf and hat and sip some red wine by an outdoor fire pit if the winery offers it (many do).

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Kelsey Hurwitz
Assistant Digital Editor
Kelsey Hurwitz is the assistant editor of WomansDay.com, and covers entertainment, holidays, pets, and good news. When she’s not writing about doughnuts and talk show hosts, she can be found watching hours of bad reality TV, belting ‘70s rock songs, and searching for her next favorite snack.
Headshot of Olivia Muenter

Olivia Muenter is a freelance writer and former fashion and beauty editor who writes about fashion, beauty, lifestyle, relationships, travel, home decor, and more for Woman's Day and beyond. Her work has appeared in Bustle, Refinery 29, Glamour, Byrdie, Apartment Therapy, Philadelphia Magazine, and more. When she's not reading (or talking about reading on Bad on Paper, the bookish podcast she co-hosts), you can find Olivia working on her first novel, curating the perfect playlist, or shopping online.

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